Generation +
I am proud to wear the badge of lifestyle longevity, having started my journey over 2 decades ago.
This thing we call "the Lifestyle"
I am Leather, BDSM, Kink & Fetish. I live it fully as an integral part of my life. Of this often misunderstood and misstated practice, I am an unapologetic enthusiast. Like music to Marvin Gaye, this lifestyle is my heart and soul, more precious than gold.
WIITWD
Under the umbrella of
My {lifestyle} Motto
For many years, my firmly-held lifestyle motto has been, “I am becoming what I am to be.” It was a declaration of preparedness for growth and an optimistic future outlook.
But at some point, one has to …arrive. There is a moment when you recognize and acknowledge your advancements. While my life is one of constant evolution, I am happily content having reached much of “what I am to be.“
Simply, I am.
tattoo
The tattoo that never was. This is the design I created on the chance I decided to take the plunge and get inked. I never did. It is based on a common infinity heart vector graphic to which I added a butterfly, 3 circles representing a parent and two children, and the BDSMblem.
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lifestyle:RESUME
My lightly written lifestyle history -- knowledge, experiences and outlook.
Love in Leather
Proud Onyx Pearl since 2017 : Founding member of Onyx Pearls Southern Leather
You Are Worthy
A special note for femsubs
As a fem s-type, I have a special affinity for novice femsubs. Along your lifestyle travels, if ever your value is called into question — and just as a matter of positivity & well-being — I urge you to make the following affirmation a part of your regular and frequent self-care routine:
I AM WORTHY
And if you’re trying to find your footing in the lifestyle, or if ever you’re at a crossroads, in a turbulent phase of your journey, or just need some inspiration to make that move, give yourself permission to let go and to just…. Breathe:
BREATHE x THE FLOACIST
be.you.tiful 
